As if by magic, the universe, and its apparent explosion of individual forms, seems to appear. ‘As if by magic’ is not really an explanation. If anything, it points to the absence of one. Something seems to appear, but why, how and from where?
Answers to these questions, of course, may appear and some seem extraordinarily convincing. Yet the answers themselves are part of what seems to appear: the theories, the measurements, the thoughts about them and even the questions themselves. Each apparent form that simply seems to appear is not self-evidently separate, nor does it arrive with an explanation of what caused it. There are certainly patterns, but these too are simply what seems to appear.
And this appearance itself remains strangely ungraspable. Whatever form it takes, there is something about it that cannot quite be caught, a kind of silent stillness that seems to be neither something nor nothing. How beautiful.
Things seem to happen before and after other things. Yesterday seems to have happened, tomorrow seems to be coming, and right now seems to sit somewhere between the two. Things appear close or far away and bodies move from one place to another. Time and space seem to provide a useful language to organise ordinary life.
What naturally seems to appear does not itself describe itself as appearing in time. It does not say there was a time before it appeared, or that time was already there waiting for it. In the same way, it does not describe itself as appearing inside some independently existing space. And something remarkably ordinary can be missed here. Before the explanation, there is simply what naturally seems to appear: not nothing, and not self-evidently a collection of independently existing things. The wholeness of what naturally seems to appear is already self-evident.
And ordinary life carries on. Breakfast is eaten, trains are caught, scientists investigate the origins of the universe, appointments are made, yesterday is remembered and something is planned for tomorrow. All of this seems to appear too.
And somehow, before all our descriptions and explanations, there is something extraordinarily simple. This is already seeming to be appearing, already inseparable from everything else that appears: no-thing-no-thinging, already whole. No final explanation seems necessary for the ever-present wonder of it to be apparent.
With love,
Freyja
P.S. I also host free monthly online meetings where we explore this message together through open dialogue. Everyone is warmly welcome, whether this is entirely new to you or something you have been exploring for many years. Details of forthcoming meetings, together with further essays and resources, can be found at www.naturallyappearing.one.
*** Next meeting is Wednesday 19th August at 19:00 UK/Portugal time. ***
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